I used to be a people pleaser, basing my decisions on the expectations of others. I was scared, afraid to make mistakes, and terrified of judgment.
But then I realized that no matter how well you do, people will judge you anyway.
So I stopped caring about their opinions and just kept going.
Life is too short to be swayed by others’ judgments. If they say something bad about you, let them. If they judge you based on untruths, let them.
Let them be. Even the kindest souls have someone who criticizes them, people who talk behind their back, and people who don’t understand them.
In short, everyone has haters, even the most admired figures in the world. The key is to not let other people’s opinions define you.
Your worth does not depend on what others think of you. Instead, focus on your own goals, values, and beliefs, and surround yourself with people who will support and uplift you.
Remember, you can’t please everyone, and that’s okay. Just be true to yourself, keep moving forward, and don’t let the negativity of others hold you back.
